Strengthen Your Internal Voice
When
you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most
probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your
hand what we mean here is someone, whom you
trust like your own-self and if
this person betrays you, in such a situation
you are left with just two
options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation
with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such
worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your
trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by
conserving your energy, and consolidating your internal voice. You must also treat
this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for
drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a
relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real &
lasting happiness can be found in living the eternal truths, as these are never
changing and their validity pervades the realms of time and space.
Any Stranger Could Have Not Been Chosen by the Super Natural to Inflict This Misery on You
It
is worthwhile to note here that the pain of betrayal can be inflicted on you
only by people whom you trust, so there is no point in blaming and cursing them
because any stranger could have not been used by the super natural to plan the
infliction of this misery on you, more over the pain experienced by you is only
the result of your own past actions or karma, but one thing is for sure that the person who
betrayed you, did so under the illusion created by ignorance or passion , and
has definitely neither understood life nor the role played by personal
leadership, emotional intelligence and the invaluable internal support in
achieving long lasting happiness & fulfillment. This person is no different
than others and has acted with the objective of achieving happiness, but did
not know the working of Maya or illusion, thereby getting trapped into its
clutches. So such a person needs a lot of sympathy and best wishes to break
free from the strong hold of Maya or illusion, and needs your support to
overcome this handicap. Such an approach of helping this person, although, shall
go a long way in developing your leadership potential and emotional
intelligence reservoir, very much needed to achieve lasting peace and happiness
in your life.
Intent of the Supernatural Is To Make You Emotionally Stronger
Once
this realization dawns on you, utmost care must be taken to ensure that you
stop depending upon such people, because so long as you continue to depend upon
them, you are most likely to re-experience the similar paralytic condition in
your life, with the only exception of depending on the super natural to be a
non deplete-able reservoir of emotional support and wisdom. In case of any such
eventuality, when you are pushed into a situation of immense unbearable pain,
apart from the stated learning, the intent of the supernatural is to make you
emotionally stronger because the super natural wants you to become strong
enough for handling the difficult stuff specifically meant to be handled by
you.
Either You Break Under Pressure or You Develop Your Emotional Intelligence
At
any given time you should be thankful to such people who play a major role in
the design of the supernatural by having an inappropriate behavior towards you.
This inappropriate behavior can range from cheating you, breaking your trust,
lying to you, being rude to you, thinking and wishing bad for you, feeling
jealous of you, etc. When a person displays such negative emotions against you,
you have a cause to celebrate that you have arrived and these people are laying
a testing ground as an examination to qualify or disqualify you against these odds.
The result of this test is measured by a simple yardstick - weather you break
under these pressures by retaliating against these provocations or you develop
your emotional intelligence by applying restraint, for maintaining a cool head under
all kinds of circumstances and not forgetting your etiquette of consideration
and respect towards others as also living the core philosophy underlined by the
universal eternal truths and the divine or the right virtues
Build Proactive Emotional Muscle to Achieve the Success You Truly Deserve
You
must also understand that the supernatural power needs people with high
emotional maturity to take on very critical tasks, having no margin for error
of any type, which require a very strong person to handle it. Therefore
the degree of your emotional maturity is tested by giving you the situations
with varying intensities of emotional turbulence, the idea is to see whether
you get qualified or disqualified for bigger and more stringent examinations,
hence there is a difference between the levels of success achieved by you as
described by your capacity to withstand pressures and emotionally testing times
without succumbing to them, on the contrary if you break out of the discipline
prescribed by the universal eternal truths and the divine virtues, you stagnate
at that particular level of incompetence till you are able to build your
proactive emotional muscle to qualify for the success truly deserved by you.
Therefore if you develop the capability to channelize all your negative
experiences as a positive input to fuel your growth, then you would have
mastered yourself and would be the most eligible & deserving person for achieving success, happiness & fulfillment in your life.
