Know Your True Values in Life Now – It Is Absolutely Critical

Two Realities

We have two realities in our life; one is what others think about us? And the other is what we actually are? We need to make constant endeavor to connect to our real self - our inner core. This is a place where there is no hidden agenda, darkness, pretention, greed, selfishness, ambiguity and illusion. There is only light, tranquility, truth, peace, relaxation, gratitude and clarity.

Goal Setting for Achieving Happiness & Fulfillment

The Perpetual Complaint; Every now and then we come across people, who complain about not being able to achieve their goals. And if we are able to achieve our goal then very often it is at a very big cost to us, which we realize only once a lot of water has flown under the bridge.  Sometimes we ourselves have the same complaint. But the people, including us, who have this perpetual complaint, must understand the complete truth behind the mechanism of goal setting and goal achievement.

Don't Wait For The Skies To Fall - Sky May Never Fall But You Can

A New Paradigm

There is a saying that,"Bad habits are easy to form but difficult to break.” Whether this is true or not, depends upon what do we like to choose. We need to rewrite this old adage with a new paradigm, to be read as,"Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break".  

We Are Only What Others Perceive Us to Be

 Align Actual Self with Self Image

We may have some self image of ourselves, this is the way we think about us, in reality this self image may or may not match with our actual self. Thus we must note that there are gaps between what we think we are and what we actually are, these gaps shall be referred as DISA(Distortions In Self Appraisal), if Self Image is represented by SI, and Actual Self by AS , then we have

Don’t Ask, Just Give Proactively – For Building Lasting Success Through Emotional Intelligence

Behavior Stemming From Heavily Saturated Frustration Levels

We see right through our lives, as well as in our day to day experiences, that most of us exhibit extremely self centered behavior in specific circumstances. Such behavior seems to stem from heavily saturated frustration levels , and has become a generally predictable outcome of behavior involving two or more people in any contentious social interaction. 

Expectations From Others Is The Problem & Self Less Service To Others Is The Solution

When we expect something from others , we hand over our control in their hands .In our day to day lives we come across instances which expose us to the vulnerability of human behavior, there are discords , disagreements and hot exchanges, when the expectations are not met. This behavioral anomaly can be overcome leading towards a reduction in showdowns and unpleasant exchanges, provided we set higher standards of self regulation & governance, where we constantly evaluate our thoughts and actions by answering these three questions

Instead Of Reacting To Others , Changing Yourself Can Provide Great Long Term Rewards

In today’s fast paced life, what we see around us is a clutter of extreme behaviors emanating from the deeply embedded aspirations. It is very important to know our aspirations to check whether our own behavior is guided by the motives directed towards self aggrandizement.

Upgrade Your Behavior for Personal Growth & Prosperity

                        When interacting with others, most of us have this approach of taking others for granted. We generally are too obsessed with our own liking, disliking, goals, aspirations, plans, dreams and the list has no end. But this approach can only take us down the hill and pretty fast. It might seem that being self centered is in our long term interest but this is like viewing distorted reality. 

Don't Let Frustration of Others Affect Your Happiness

It is very strange to note that a large majority of us, are so engrossed in our personal activities & routines that we tend to overlook an important fact. We might feel that we are independent but the fact is that we can't run away from the day to day reality of mutual human interdependence & coexistence.

And You Thought You Were In Control

When we are looking around us, we are amazed by the disproportionate allocation of resources done by nature. But the fact is each person is paying the price for gaining material prosperity. It may sound a bit harsh to the have-nots but the truth is the haves have paid adequate price for achieving their material wealth. It is like barter trade, you trade one possession to get another. Some- times people go after the mental peace and they lose their families, On the other hand there are some who go after their families and lose their mental peace.

Don't Despair, Happiness Can Again Replace This Pain

                                                                 When you were born,you were in your original & pure form, as you had started a new journey.During this journey you took certain actions which affected your personality.There were certain influences, which were positive but there were negative influences as well.

Achieving Happiness & Fulfillment In Your Life

                                     "For Every Action There Is An Equal and Opposite Reaction",this statement is known as Newton's Third Law of Motion.You may be wondering what this law has to do here, but we need to understand the application of this law to our day to day living to be able to take advantage of this truth.

Power of Correct Living To Achieve Happiness and Bliss

                                              It is quite an ironical truth,that all us are generally hurt by some one known to us, because our expectations are not met or when our faith and trust is broken.In that situation we go through a great amount of unbearable pain.

Invaluable Internal Support

                                                            When you face challenges then there is a voice from with in that directs you to persist in the face of great difficulties.This is the strength which made many a great discoveries possible for mankind.When every thing goes against you this is the voice that acts as a torch to light up the path on which to advance.

Exemplify The Perspective Of Service To Others

                                                       The real problem with the world is that the majority of people constantly try to achieve happiness through self gratification.This is a flawed perspective as the main reason for anyone's existence on this earth is not self gratification but service to others.

Wisdom Comes Before Happiness

When happiness is the goal, it is important to understand that it comes only after wisdom. Till such time we put happiness before wisdom the happiness will always elude us. It is same as a horse trying to push a chariot; whereas the fact is that the horse can comfortably pull a chariot and may not be able to push it well even after putting in the best efforts.

Action Is Real Knowledge

I have been thinking to write a blog for a long time, this idea has come to fruition today, only because I have taken action towards this end, thus reconfirming the fact that action is real knowledge.